Monday, September 12, 2011

Amity


I am a graduate now and must say more than anything, I am happy that I won't have to visit my college again (Almost ! Would someone attend that convocation for me ?). These four years have to be an important facet  of my life , Became a web-addict , got collective , two good outings , some lifetime friends and  a  lot of unavoidable situations to say the least. My acute humor was on display every now and then when there was no one to understand it , The discerning  one -liners to flatter girls were left begging to be understood , never getting the kickback they deserved. I remember saying , "You have Vodka written all over eyes" to a girl which landed me into a lot of trouble , not to forget she did turn this class of appreciation into filth while enumerating all this in Hindi to her boyfriend . Some people who did come to know about it never left a moment to banter me , saying " Teri ankhon me nasha hai" (Just a translation in hindi but looks a bit cheap for comfort,Arghh! ). Flash on , I love you(just casually) went perfect with every other girl when I was in first year, and  had just started to talk with them , You can remove the braces a little later if you like and but would you understand that I am not trying to hit on you!


 There wasn't a single week when i hadn't come back to my city from college , I had  taken hostel there (The place was around 2.5- whatever hours from chandigarh) , Some times I had to wait for more than two hours  for half an hour of distance in that scorching heat. You are  lucky if you are able to get a seat in those buses and the one's trying to get in  the bus keeping both hands in their pockets somewhat like me , They are in for something really big.  For Girls and aged one's,  I thought it was agonizing to stand all the way or getting dragged down everywhere , That broke me seriously.


My mother did pack my bag all those four years ( and even now ) , Everyone wondered why I brought such a full bag when I don't stay at hostel for more than 4 days , when I don't eat anything from the mess ? Or why do I travel so much back and forth from chandigarh to hostel. Mum always used to  tell me which thing was in which pocket , Though she knew I was going to call her when I am not able to figure out anything. Papa always say , "When will he learn to do a thing , Don't do anything for him else i won't have dinner/breakfast/lunch"(Keeps changing)  . Food , that is the only thing all of us use to make Mumma  surrender , She can't see anyone of us  skipping even a meal. I know I am not very responsible but I love the look on my Mom's face when I am about to leave and she hands me my bag , Such tenderness and amity I hope remains forever.


We can love anything and everything in this world , Love has much larger dimensions than many of us think. I love you.







13 comments:

  1. girls always act a bit too much during college days. the girl who told her boyfriend would have secretly fantasized about you while kissing him, stay assured! and i think that was quite a statement only you used on a stupid :D

    and well, a new phase begins now...work and what not...where you joining or further studies?

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  2. and that is how i pack my husband's bag...i stick lil notes to tell him where to find what :) women know how to spoil men :D

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  3. @Chintan - Freelancing these days actually , will join some company soon.

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  4. your one-liners begging to be understood- HAHA

    nice post- beginning to get a glimpse into your life

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  6. Lovely post. Reminds me of my guy friends! College is such an unforgettable, transitory period. It's the last time we have such minimal responsibility. Best of luck with things ahead.

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  7. I was a day scholar for the whole 5 years of my college life in Architecture....!!But i could relate to all these things described so beautifully that it lured me again back into the life which we all leave behind when we graduate...Yet ...a part of us stays behind...with the innocent years...!!

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  8. am glad you moved *join this site* to the right spot.. <3

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  10. makes me feel nostalgic..
    PG has started fr me and for the 1st tym m staying out of home now!
    beautifully written boy.. & congrats on bein an engineer now :)

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  11. good wrk..u write in a way so that which helps the reader to relate to the post very well..kp it up! :)

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